Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Hey ppl we often complain about things we don’t have but we never look at things what we have!! One day I was just doing introspection and I came across the fact that we all can do whatever we want in life but we always busy keeping eye on what others are doing and complaining why we don’t have what others are having! Now that is point where problem starts arising and it grows into big urge to get something which might mislead us to wrong path!! I know its bit philosophical but point is that why to complain about what we don’t have, what we don’t get!! Just to satisfy ourselves we say it went wrong because the other person involved done in a wrong way! Whatever we do we are responsible for our deeds whether it’s good or bad so we should accept it and try to enjoy in both good and bad times! The important thing is to accept our faults and try to improve upon it rather comparing ourselves with others! But yes I do agree nowadays we have societal influential on us and also some time parent’s pressure! Parents should treat there children as there friend, I have seen that those who have kept distance and much discipline with there child are often went to wrong path!! I know I am moving from the topic but everything is inter-related or inter-connected I mean why we say that its not possible I know reasons can be genuine but if we want than nothing is impossible we cant say its not possible we can say its not possible because I don’t want or may be its not my priority if u want to do something than u can achieve it and u can find thousand ways to achieve that success!!!

2 comments:

Devanshi said...

Welcome with first blog post dear...Hey it reflects our usual discussions:)... let's have discussion on this...'Why parents should treat children as their friends?'...I will write post on this soon...

viki said...

hmmm good one i can go on and on.... on this topic!! parents should definitely treat their children as their friends but should not forget to keep a line and discipline as certain times because of over friendliness also it effects the other way!! But yes if parents treat their children as a friend than lots of insecurity which is seen very often nowadays in youngster can be lessen down at least some extent thats what i believe moreover children can open up and can express there views freely and can be happy in whatever decision they take in their life whether personal or professional as sometimes parents just force their views on their children so in long run it effects psychologically!!!We can see in urban society mostly in upper class family and especially nuclear family children are generally grown up either in boarding school or may be with help of servant so even in that case too be too modern is not good it might lead children to wrong path and wrong companion of friends which can be dangerous too we often see such cases in tv news!!! so to just cut short i believe that parents at should treat their children as friends and at the same time i also believe that they should also keep discipline which is lacking nowadays!!!